Long overdue

I’ve been listening to Blackstar, the final album by David Bowie, on an endless loop, much the way that one might listen to the final telephone message left by a recently deceased loved one.

It’s the last message he left for us, before departing for the void.

But he’s not gone — not really. One flip through my extensive catalog of music can find me perusing old messages from the Thin White Duke, marveling over and over about a certain clever lyric, a particularly wonderful musical phrasing or vocal delivery.

If I have my way, I will be remembered for what I leave behind. I’ve always felt a kinship with Bowie in his restlessness and artistic courage and integrity. I want his ability to follow his own vision, without worrying whether people will ‘get it’ or not. Throughout his career, he would often switch directions so abruptly that he would alienate the audience he had just gained.

But for Bowie, it was more about pleasing and impressing himself rather than the fans.

Which brings me to where I’m at.

I spent just over two years doing what I wanted to do, with a mixed measure of success. I won fans, I lost fans, I confused people who just didn’t ‘get’ what I was trying to do. It was exhausting, and quite frankly, not at all worth the stress and anxiety I felt.

Now I’m at a place where I’m trying to do something else with my life, and I haven’t been writing (not that it’s been that long, but considering I used to average about 2000 words a day consistently, it’s a change for me). This is the first thing I’ve written in 2016, and it’s long overdue.

I don’t know if anyone will read this at all, and that’s okay. This is more for me — to put something new on my wall and declare that I was here. Just a little emotional graffiti.

I’m in a happy place. A place of change, and a place of growth. I’m trying to adult better, to make better use of my time and resources.

I don’t mean to leave anyone behind, but I also don’t have the energy or time to dedicate to trying to juggle social media and my life as it is right now. I was never very good at it to begin with, and now I’m admitting defeat — or, accepting my limitations, if you prefer.

So, if you see me, say hello. If you miss me, I do have a rather large collection of writing you can visit or revisit, like pulling that old Bowie LP out of the stack and falling in love all over again.

Your favourite dilettante,




11 responses to “Long overdue

  1. I am being completely honest when I say that I noticed your absence. This write was lovely. Do whatever you can? I’ve never understood people who feel the need to explain to anyone why they have been absent?! Do you! I enjoyed this piece about Bowie, sincerely. xo

  2. I’m glad you’ve been spending time in Real, having adventures and Doing Life. I think there’s a time and a place for writing, and often it seems the most prolific times of writing are when life is something of a desert. It makes sense that the writing wanes when the living is good.

    I hope you find the balance you want 🙂 Take good care of you 🙂

      • I write when I have nothing which is a higher priority…I think most people are the same. Dunno about unhappy though. I’m often happy both ways and I’d tend to assume the same about most people I know.

  3. I’m glad to see you honoring your need for change. I think it’s so important as we figure ourselves out… I’m in the midst of a lot of change myself, and I appreciate others for on the journey!

    When I heard the news about Bowie, I did think of you. It’s been hard to wrap my head around to be honest… Such a loss! You’re right, there’s lots to remember him by, but it feels a little emptier, knowing he’s not here. Keep doing what you need to, to feel alive and fulfilled! xox

      • I’ve missed you as well! Seems we both dropped off each other’s radar! Have you been writing? I haven’t gotten any notifications… I’ve been right where I’ve been all along, with a few air miles thrown in there! 😉 BUSY, crazy, mostly good year!! Hope you are doing well, and feeling some of the relief and quiet you were craving? xox

  4. It is nice to hear that you are happy, and that you will do anything to keep it or make it that way. I don’t think there will be any running away from writing, so I will revisit the old material, but also patiently wait for new one (Goddamnit, I wanna know what happens to Kri!)

  5. In my thoughts and on my bookshelf, never far away. Welcome back. Stay awhile, pull up a chair. I’ll open a bottle.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )


Connecting to %s